“He would weaponize the relationship and say, ‘Is this you Jill, or is this you, Derek? Are you leading your wife astray and doing things that are not supportive of marriage?'” he continued. “And I think that was a red flag.”
“When I saw how it was affecting our marriage, I think that was another wake-up call for me,” Jill pointed out. “It was like, okay, we need to either fight this battle together, or it’s going to rip us apart. So yeah, we had to join forces at that point.”
