My friends were moving, too, and they were like, “Cate, come with us.” When I got to New York, I would look for Isaac everywhere. I would see a tall blond man, and think, Oh, my gosh, is that him? Months in, I was on my way to one of these online dates I’d been experimenting with, and I actually saw Isaac, who also seemed to be on a first date. At first I was totally crushed. But then I realized how uncomfortable he looked, and it just made me laugh.